This is sort of a round-up regarding the ongoing online conversation happening around beauty, modesty, and lust. I've selected several posts that have been written in the past year. I'm sure there have been others but these give you a distinctive flavor of the different views expressed by Christians either on their own personal blogs or Christian online publications. If I've missed some other good online posts in recent months feel free to include their links in the comments section.
I think there is such a deep need for this conversation in the Christian community. It is like a minefield to navigate through on issues of women in leadership, men and women as friends (including men and women who are married but not to each other), objectfying women in Christian community, objectifying men in Christian community, shame, women and eating disorders, male weakness, male responsibility, codependency, sexuality, non-romantic intimacy, marriage, women's self-esteem, sexual fundamentalism, and so on.