A reader writes to me: "It hurt me so bad when my pastor (who said I was his friend)
said one Sunday that he would never ride in the car with a woman alone even if
they were broken down that he would "throw his cell phone at them..hahahaha".
And this, of course, made me put myself in that place and experience how I would
feel if he saw me stranded. It was then, in my mind I had been reduced to no
longer a friend/sister, but reduced to a sexual object that he must
He also told me as a pastor he has to remain "above reproach"...