In case you missed these or haven't read some of them, off the top of my head these are my top ten links on cross-sex friendship. I didn't include any of my posts. These are from the good links out there compiled into one post.
1. Four Myths of Cross-Sex Friendship
These are indeed, myths.
2. Four different kinds of Attractions
I think this is an incredibly helpful post in delineating four kinds of attractions.
3. Of Course Men and Women Can Be Friends
Common sense realism to friendship between men and women in the 21st century.
4. Do Cross-Gender Friends Always Have a Sexual Element?
Good strong article.
5. Why Do Some Dudes Assume All Their Female Friends Want to Bang Them?
Coarse language but oh such a great response by my friend Hugo Schwyzer to the latest "scientific" proof that men and women can't be friends. This is great stuff.
6. When Harry Was Wrong by Hugo
Back to back links by Hugo.
7. Harry was Wrong by Jonalyn Fincher
My friend Jonalyn hitting one out of the park on this one.
8. Friendship Heals by Kathy Escobar
Beautiful post by my friend Kathy Escobar on healing and cross-gender friendship.
9. An Open Letter to my Best Friend's Wife by Alise Wright
Great letter written to her best friend's wife. I love reading good stuff like this.
10. Romancing a Friend, Parts 1 and 2 by Meredith Efken
Yeah, includes what it looks like to write love letters to your friends from both sexes. Great stuff.

