In case you missed these or haven't read some of them, off the top of my head these are my top ten links on cross-sex friendship. I didn't include any of my posts. These are from the good links out there compiled into one post.
These are indeed, myths.
I think this is an incredibly helpful post in delineating four kinds of attractions.
Common sense realism to friendship between men and women in the 21st century.
Good strong article.
Coarse language but oh such a great response by my friend Hugo Schwyzer to the latest "scientific" proof that men and women can't be friends. This is great stuff.
Back to back links by Hugo.
7. Harry was Wrong by Jonalyn Fincher
My friend Jonalyn hitting one out of the park on this one.
Beautiful post by my friend Kathy Escobar on healing and cross-gender friendship.
9. An Open Letter to my Best Friend's Wife by Alise Wright
Great letter written to her best friend's wife. I love reading good stuff like this.
Yeah, includes what it looks like to write love letters to your friends from both sexes. Great stuff.